Can anyone recommend a version of Handel's Giulio Cesare that meets the following criteria?:
1) That all characters are casted accordingly (I.E., no female sopranos for male roles. Who though this up, exactly? I had to ditch Rene Jacobs version, as fine as it was, just because i couldn't stand the idea).
In the original production of
Giulio Cesare, the role of Sesto was sung by one Margherita Durastanti. Obviously Handel didn't know what he was doing, and modern productions that cast a countertenor in the role are more HIP than Handel himself was.

Ha yes, the castrati, is this why they do it? Does anybody even know what a castrated singer sounds like? I can't even begin to fathom how ridiculous it must look to have women play male roles on stage.
I think one of the great things about recordings is that looks aren't really a consideration. Imagine they look however you like (also works with Pavarotti recordings). On the Glydebourne DVD, I find Sarah Connolly and Andrea Kirchschlager make fairly convincing males.
I imagine some folks in Handel's time said "I can't even begin to fathom how ridiculous it must sound to have high-voiced eunuchs play heroic male roles on stage."
In any case, I wish I could help you find a recording that meets your standards (Jacobs meets my standards, so I've quit looking). I know a guy at another board who's a huge Handel freak and probably has every recording of
Cesare that's ever been issued. I'll make a post there and see if he answers.
Edit: It just occurred to me: Are countertenors OK by you, or do you want the male roles transposed and sung by actual tenors/baritones/basses, like Richter's DG version? I don't think any modern period-instrument performance would use those "normal" male voices.