What a mess.
Although there might be an opportunity to make money forwarding items to certain other EU countries.
I used the €22 threshold to order small batches from Europadisc and Prestomusic free from VAT, which made up for the increased shipping costs. Well, I guess no more....
I believe UK sellers are now looking into the possibility to collect the VAT for the EU on EU-orders, which would give the shipments a free pass into the EU.
I had two delayed orders from Europadisc, which are shipped now. Wait and see how that goes...

But I probably will be billed by Dutch customs, unless the packages due to their modest size slip through.