I'm done with it if I don't like it first time around.
However: I ALWAYS came back to something I'm 'done with' with if I hear, read or it is suggested to me that there's something in it I should listen for, or if I've completely misunderstood the music for one reason or another...
One example of many, I thought I had wasted money on Neumann's Mahler cycle with the Czch PO. I thought it was bland, it was boring, it was quite poor altogether. Someone on this forum (who owns about 4,546,789 CD's or something) about a decade ago suggested I was a wee bit skewed with it...it was suggested to me that I listen to it in a different way...I was to listen for nuance, to the brilliant use of Mahlers orchestration made clear by Neumann, how some things in the cycle which Neumann emphasised more that were not so apparent in other recordings. So I listened again, and sure enough, there was magic in it!
I am ALWAYS open to other opinions of our music...so while someone else likes something I do not, if there's a reason for someone liking it, then there may be something in it I will like after all...Messiaen, there's another one, I 'wanted' to like his Turangalila Symphony, but couldn't get my head around it...but oh some patient reading, some extremely patient re-listening...and today I think most of the versions I've heard carry a great degree of profundity, and I do like it...it took a lot of work, no two versions are the same...
