Goodbye

Started by Henk, July 03, 2024, 08:23:19 AM

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Henk

I'm leaving.

I got a warning for trolling. No mention about what. An anymonous post moreover.

If there's so little tolerance, this is not for me.

Also I got no response from a complaint by Madiel, whom I dislike now even more, because of his complain, that is unexplained and makes no sense to me.


Spotted Horses

Quote from: Henk on July 03, 2024, 08:23:19 AMI'm leaving.

I got a warning for trolling. No mention about what. An anymonous post moreover.

If there's so little tolerance, this is not for me.

Also I got no response from a complaint by Madiel, whom I dislike now even more.

I'm sorry to hear that you feel you have to leave. Perhaps the best course would be to confine your participation here more strictly to music, since other subjects seem to lead to friction.
There are simply two kinds of music, good music and the other kind. - Duke Ellington

Henk

Quote from: Spotted Horses on July 03, 2024, 08:27:50 AMI'm sorry to hear that you feel you have to leave. Perhaps the best course would be to confine your participation here more strictly to music, since other subjects seem to lead to friction.

Thanks for your response.

I'm a full member or no member.

Henk

#3
I can't even reply to the warning post. Is this a joke or so?
They say that I 'intentionally create discord'.. ?? I don't take this.

I try to be positive all the time and to contribute.

What a kafka-esk way to treat members of what is supposed to be a civilized forum.

Henk

We're all humans. If you don't get this, then it's a pity.

Brian

If you have questions for the moderators, you can always PM us and we can talk about it. We prefer to talk in private as a courtesy to save people embarrassment, offense, etc. It would be sad to see you leave over such a simple thing, but of course you are free to make your choices.

I don't understand what you mean by "the warning post" or "an anonymous post." Are you talking about a public post?

Again, you can always send a PM.

EDIT: Also, you are currently not in our warning/watching system.

Karl Henning

Wouldn't want to see you go, @Henk do reach out to the mods.
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Composer & Clarinetist
Boston MA
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[Matisse] was interested neither in fending off opposition,
nor in competing for the favor of wayward friends.
His only competition was with himself. — Françoise Gilot

Henk

Cold-blooded ostracized

Florestan

When I'm creating at the piano, I tend to feel happy; but - the eternal dilemma - how can we be happy amid the unhappiness of others? I'd do everything I could to give everyone a moment of happiness. That's what's at the heart of my music. — Nino Rota

steve ridgway

Trolling and creating discord? I can't say I've noticed anything :( .

Dry Brett Kavanaugh

Quote from: Henk on July 03, 2024, 08:23:19 AMI'm leaving.

I got a warning for trolling. No mention about what. An anymonous post moreover.

If there's so little tolerance, this is not for me.

Also I got no response from a complaint by Madiel, whom I dislike now even more, because of his complain, that is unexplained and makes no sense to me.




Please stay with us.


By the way, this thread could possibly be useful in the future for various (and benign) purposes.

Florestan

Quote from: steve ridgway on July 03, 2024, 09:06:14 AMrolling and creating discord? I can't say I've noticed anything :( .

This. Where could that have taken place I wonder? Never noticed anything.
When I'm creating at the piano, I tend to feel happy; but - the eternal dilemma - how can we be happy amid the unhappiness of others? I'd do everything I could to give everyone a moment of happiness. That's what's at the heart of my music. — Nino Rota

Henk

Quote from: Florestan on July 03, 2024, 09:04:04 AMWTF is that?  ???

They want to seduce me to reconsider my move, in other words adapt. I'm glad I get some support now.

Florestan

Quote from: Henk on July 03, 2024, 09:20:24 AMThey want to seduce me to reconsider my move, in other words adapt. I'm glad I get some support now.

No, I mean, this whole thing. In what thread were you accused of trolling? That's news to me.
When I'm creating at the piano, I tend to feel happy; but - the eternal dilemma - how can we be happy amid the unhappiness of others? I'd do everything I could to give everyone a moment of happiness. That's what's at the heart of my music. — Nino Rota

AnotherSpin

Quote from: Karl Henning on July 03, 2024, 09:16:54 AMGood advice, and thanks for offering it.

No problem. In fact, I think the administration here is overzealous and often oversteps the bounds of sanity. As long as forum members don't start praising child pornography or Netrebko and Gergiev, things can stay as they are. The referees in the Premier League as a model.

Brian

Just to remind that personal attacks are against the forum guidelines.
https://www.good-music-guide.com/community/index.php/topic,5.0.html

I appreciate the irony of offering some moderation to a discussion of possible over-moderation  :P , but this is one of the few actual rules we have. We don't have to like everybody, but we do show respect. The advice about using ignore (or using your personal ability to ignore!) is very sound.

AnotherSpin

Quote from: Brian on July 03, 2024, 09:51:17 AMJust to remind that personal attacks are against the forum guidelines.
https://www.good-music-guide.com/community/index.php/topic,5.0.html

I appreciate the irony of offering some moderation to a discussion of possible over-moderation  :P , but this is one of the few actual rules we have. We don't have to like everybody, but we do show respect. The advice about using ignore (or using your personal ability to ignore!) is very sound.

noted

Henk

Quote from: Brian on July 03, 2024, 09:51:17 AMJust to remind that personal attacks are against the forum guidelines.
https://www.good-music-guide.com/community/index.php/topic,5.0.html

I appreciate the irony of offering some moderation to a discussion of possible over-moderation  :P , but this is one of the few actual rules we have. We don't have to like everybody, but we do show respect. The advice about using ignore (or using your personal ability to ignore!) is very sound.

Where is the personal attack??

ritter

Phrases like "the character is sick". Let's please not engage in that kind of name calling. Thanks!

Cato

Quote from: Henk on July 03, 2024, 08:23:19 AMI'm leaving.

I got a warning for trolling. No mention about what. An anymonous post moreover.

If there's so little tolerance, this is not for me.

Also I got no response from a complaint by Madiel, whom I dislike now even more, because of his complain, that is unexplained and makes no sense to me.




Yes, please reconsider and stay with us! 😇
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