Schoolgirl crushes

[DavidW]

D' you still think about them?

No, but I haven't forgotten either.  Maybe I'm a freak, but for me time fades emotion into simple memory.

[Danny]

That would be a negative for me.

[Mozart]

One day i plan to. A small house in a small Italian town a little ways of the coast. Some peace in quiet to compose, as well as some beautiful scenery to inspire. Eat incredible food and learn the gorgeous language. And then meet a olive skinned women, settle down and have some kids.

My life, if only in a dream.

I have the same dream, except substituting doing nothing for composing.

[Sean]

Type implication of school girl crush is that you are a school boy.  Congratulations, you are now more creepy than Sean.   

Thanks head-case.

[greg]

ah greg.....i thought you were after asian girls...evident by your display of enthusiasm for learning japanese and chinese...

hehe 

[маразм1]

i got a second chance--4 years ago I dated my childhood crush, who came here to study for a year from Russia. I was very disappointed in the end...

[greg]

I was very disappointed in the end...

did she get mad in the end and break your guitar? That would be a bit distressing.....

[маразм1]

did she get mad in the end and break your guitar? That would be a bit distressing.....

ha ha

[BorisG]

[маразм1]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lDW-P8szwSw

In case you're wondering, they're still playing together--I went on tour with them  

edit: they all have great legs! even though they're in their 50's

[MN Dave]

The past is ashes.

[Henk]

I want to add my story. Actually, I'm in the middle of the story and need your advice how to deal with it.

She's called Anouk. I went with her to highschool.

Now I think I have an immediate cause which gives me the right to contact her again. Altough she has made clear she don't want contact I can't simply let this opportunity go by. Considering the history, about which I want to tell more, it's a bit risky and it tends to stalking but I also see chances. Should I do it or not? I want to get advice from different people and not foolishly act on my own.

Enough for now. Let already know what you think of it.

[Henk]

Sorry guys, strategy meanwhile failed. I already knew the answer before posting. Be a gentleman. But the judge totally doesn't know how to handle such a case, I think.

[Harry]

Sorry guys, strategy meanwhile failed. I already knew the answer before posting. Be a gentleman. But the judge totally doesn't know how to handle such a case, I think.

Bottom line is Henk, if a girl doesn't want contact, and she has said no, its best to leave her at her own devices.
It is pretty humiliating to force yourself on a woman, if she clearly has refused any communication.
That will only lead to more disappointment, and is pretty damaging for your self esteem.
There are more girls in the world as you can imagine.......

[springrite]

My policy is to let them come to me.

[Henk]

Bottom line is Henk, if a girl doesn't want contact, and she has said no, its best to leave her at her own devices.
It is pretty humiliating to forces yourself on a woman, if she clearly has refused any communication.
That will only lead to more disappointment, and is pretty damaging for your self esteem.
There are more girls in the world as you can imagine.......

Sensible words, Harry. Maar "de verstandigheid moet men aan de dommen laten" (sensibility is for the dumbs) .
My live gets worthless if I stop being faithfull to my love for her. It's not that I wait for her, I'm convinced she waits for someone, but doesn't know it's me. It's because of my clumsieness . But one thing I finally did was OK, I made real contact with her and now I'm playing the gentleman . I will wait for the effect and that takes long I expect. What if that effect doesn't take place at all? I simply can't believe that.

[Mozart]

Bottom line is Henk, if a girl doesn't want contact, and she has said no, its best to leave her at her own devices.
It is pretty humiliating to forces yourself on a woman, if she clearly has refused any communication.
That will only lead to more disappointment, and is pretty damaging for your self esteem.
There are more girls in the world as you can imagine.......

Very true but at the same time, not acting gives you regrets longer than that disappointment. A friend of mine told me, if men knew how women think they would be 10 times as daring. Strange creatures these women are...If you are nice to them, they scorn you!

[Henk]

Very true but at the same time, not acting gives you regrets longer than that disappointment. A friend of mine told me, if men knew how women think they would be 10 times as daring. Strange creatures these women are...If you are nice to them, they scorn you!

It's a matter of reaching the limits. In my case at least.

[Harry]

Women are mysteries, and that is what I like about them. I had long experience in handling them, and they me I guess, that I think you have to be a connoisseur to understand what is really going on in their minds and bodies.
Once you get that the world is open for you, as it is for me, and always was, but then it is one of my preoccupations lasting a lifetime....and gaining experience at every move, or not

[Mozart]

Sorry dude, but your strategy won't work.