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Title: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: Michel on August 13, 2007, 11:16:13 PM
Practical limitations aside, I would have Tchaikovsky's Violin Concerto, as it is fundamentally a positive piece of music.

I would want the first movement; I find the music so emancipatory. To me, more than any other piece of music I've ever heard, it rings of freedom, and of "release".

I certianly wouldn't want anything dark, the problem with dark music is that it is a bit self-aggrandizing at a funeral, I think.  ;)
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: david johnson on August 13, 2007, 11:38:57 PM
amazing grace, sung a cappella by one of my students.  such an amazing and musical voice!

dj
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Post by: springrite on August 13, 2007, 11:39:43 PM
Mahler 2, probably, or if I want to spare the mourners time, I'd go with Chopin Ballade #1.
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Post by: Mozart on August 13, 2007, 11:50:11 PM
Why would you care what they play? How about a fugue of crying bastards?  ;D ;D
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Post by: Symphonien on August 14, 2007, 12:28:51 AM
Something self-aggrandising. ;D

Really I don't care though, because I'll be dead...
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Post by: Grazioso on August 14, 2007, 04:18:31 AM
"Highway to Hell" by AC/DC because everyone needs a good laugh from time to time ;D
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Post by: Kullervo on August 14, 2007, 06:40:51 AM
First movement of Mozart's clarinet quintet.
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Post by: Mark on August 14, 2007, 01:29:36 PM
Rachmaninov's All-night Vigil. In full, with a massive, self-aggrandising choir. Or at the very least, the 'Bless the Lord, O my soul'.

Alternatively, three English songs: Elgar's 'The Shower' to begin, then later, Pearsall's 'Lay A Garland', and to close, Stanford's beautiful 'The Blue Bird'. Divine.
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Post by: LaciDeeLeBlanc on August 14, 2007, 02:48:18 PM
Eine Alpensinfonie by Richard Strauss or
Pines of Rome by Ottorino Respighi
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: Solitary Wanderer on August 14, 2007, 02:59:38 PM
Wagner ~ Lohengrin Prelude Act.1.

Note: We did this topic a few months ago :)
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: paul on August 14, 2007, 03:42:11 PM
A requiem, of course...by J.D. Zelenka.

Or should that be A Solo Requiem for Soprano and Two Pianos by Milton Babbitt?
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Post by: Larry Rinkel on August 14, 2007, 03:48:41 PM
To adapt something I wrote at rmcr, when the question was instead: "A while back I asked which piece would you choose to hear if you had only 30 minutes to live," I think I would pick these three pieces as my program:
- the third movement of Beethoven's quartet, Op. 130
- the third movement of his quartet, Op. 135
- the bass aria Mache dich, mein Herze rein from Bach's St. Matthew Passion

If there were time, I would also schedule the slow movement from Beethoven's quartet, Op. 127, the Chopin 4th Ballade, and "Ich bin der Welt" and "Um Mitternacht" from the Ruckert Lieder. And hopefully I could end with the most peacefully beautiful piece of music ever written, the third Agnus Dei from the Missa L'Homme Armé Sexti Toni by Josquin des Prez.
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Post by: paul on August 14, 2007, 04:12:07 PM
I would actually like Thomas Tallis's Spem in alium performed at my funeral or at least in memory of me. The sheer beauty of the sound of massive 40-voice imitative counterpoint tends to put me in a reflective state of mind and it seems befitting.
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Post by: Dancing Divertimentian on August 14, 2007, 04:39:21 PM
Across The Universe by the Beatles.




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Post by: PerfectWagnerite on August 14, 2007, 04:53:45 PM
Quote from: LaciDeeLeBlanc on August 14, 2007, 02:48:18 PM
Eine Alpensinfonie by Richard Strauss

A bit over-the-top don't you think?

I would probably want Strauss' Metamorphosen for Strings or his Death and Transfiguration.
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: PSmith08 on August 14, 2007, 05:13:43 PM
Wagner: Siegfried's funeral music from Götterdämmerung.
Verdi: Tuba mirum from the Requiem.

8)
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: Gurn Blanston on August 14, 2007, 05:18:41 PM
Since Harry probably isn't going to come anyway, and my survivors have so many versions to choose from, I want the "Ode to Joy". It suits me to a "T". :)

8)
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: not edward on August 14, 2007, 05:33:25 PM
The second Ich bin der Welt abhanden gekommen from this disc:

(http://ec1.images-amazon.com/images/I/41SXMM4ZGHL._SS500_.jpg)
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: Larry Rinkel on August 14, 2007, 05:41:47 PM
Quote from: PerfectWagnerite on August 14, 2007, 04:53:45 PM
A bit over-the-top don't you think?

It's his funeral.
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Post by: Heather Harrison on August 14, 2007, 05:54:40 PM
When I'm dead, I probably won't care.

But if people wanted to remember me properly, they would play P.D.Q. Bach's Missa Hilarious.  Since I am a screwball, this choice would be appropriate.

Heather
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: dtwilbanks on August 14, 2007, 05:59:13 PM
Chopsticks.
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: Larry Rinkel on August 14, 2007, 06:20:14 PM
Quote from: dtwilbanks on August 14, 2007, 05:59:13 PM
Chopsticks.

Whose recording?
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: dtwilbanks on August 14, 2007, 06:21:31 PM
Quote from: Larry Rinkel on August 14, 2007, 06:20:14 PM
Whose recording?

Richter, of course!  :)
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: btpaul674 on August 14, 2007, 06:59:20 PM
Anything DMX
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Post by: RebLem on August 14, 2007, 07:19:17 PM
Billie Holiday singing "Please don't talk about me when I'm gone."
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: Iago on August 14, 2007, 08:04:23 PM
Quote from: dtwilbanks on August 14, 2007, 06:21:31 PM
Richter, of course!  :)

I know you're saying that "tongue-in-cheek". But I wouldn't be quite so dismissive of that possibility if I were you. I can't speak about  Richter. But I can speak about another great pianist ..Rudolf Serkin.

One of the summers that I was working at Tanglewood, Serkin was scheduled for a performance of the Beethoven "Emperor" Concerto, with Munch and the Boston Symphony. He was at the Shed about 3 hrs before the concert doing his very preliminary "warm-ups". I was busy doing my preliminary duties as well, but when I heard the sound of the piano, I looked in at his dressing room, and saw that it was he seated at the Steinway. He looked up, saw me in the doorway, and said "Come in. What would you like to hear"?  Now a bit weak in the knees, I said "anything that pleases you, Mr. Serkin".

He played "Chopsticks"   Apparently he was unsatisfied with his initial performance, so he played it two more times. I said "thanks, is there anything I can get for you"? He said "no, I don't need anything right now". And I left.
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Post by: Mozart on August 14, 2007, 08:31:02 PM
Weak in the knees? How come? That doesn't sound like you.
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: Iago on August 14, 2007, 08:35:19 PM
Quote from: MozartMobster on August 14, 2007, 08:31:02 PM
Weak in the knees? How come? That doesn't sound like you.

I was young. It wouldn't happen now. believe me.
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: Mozart on August 14, 2007, 08:37:30 PM
I dont't understand why people would become so shy when meeting someone they admire. Why is that, I mean they aren't any better than anyone else. I imagine, If I ever meet Erika Miklosa, I'd put the moves on her  ;D
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Post by: rach on August 14, 2007, 08:39:14 PM
Mahler number 3
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: Symphonien on August 14, 2007, 10:02:50 PM
Ligeti's Requiem.
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: max on August 14, 2007, 10:03:27 PM
Zero sound or at most the sound of a single instrument. A Mozart or Haydn piano sonata will do just fine but most definitely Schubert's last piano sonata D.960 played by Wilhelm Kempff, transcendent and lighthearted at the same time.
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: dtwilbanks on August 15, 2007, 06:09:16 AM
Quote from: Iago on August 14, 2007, 08:04:23 PM
I know you're saying that "tongue-in-cheek". But I wouldn't be quite so dismissive of that possibility if I were you. I can't speak about  Richter. But I can speak about another great pianist ..Rudolf Serkin.

One of the summers that I was working at Tanglewood, Serkin was scheduled for a performance of the Beethoven "Emperor" Concerto, with Munch and the Boston Symphony. He was at the Shed about 3 hrs before the concert doing his very preliminary "warm-ups". I was busy doing my preliminary duties as well, but when I heard the sound of the piano, I looked in at his dressing room, and saw that it was he seated at the Steinway. He looked up, saw me in the doorway, and said "Come in. What would you like to hear"?  Now a bit weak in the knees, I said "anything that pleases you, Mr. Serkin".

He played "Chopsticks"   Apparently he was unsatisfied with his initial performance, so he played it two more times. I said "thanks, is there anything I can get for you"? He said "no, I don't need anything right now". And I left.

Great story. Thanks.
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Post by: Novi on August 15, 2007, 09:36:54 AM
I'll be in a better place having a cuppa with Mr Beethoven - they can play anything they like at my funeral :).

But I can tell you my playlist from when my dog died though :'(:

Fauré requiem - because that's one of the gentler requiems; Verdiesque fire and brimstone weren't my dog's style

Des Abschieds from Das Lied von der Erde - to bawl my eyes out to

Mahler 2 - because of the uplifting ending 0:)
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: mahlertitan on August 15, 2007, 09:48:16 AM
Bruckner's 7th adagio
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Post by: bhodges on August 15, 2007, 11:25:06 AM
I would love almost anything live to be played at my memorial, as a composer I know did for his mother who died a few years ago.  (He did a very beautiful percussion piece - soft - that seemed very timeless.) 

But if that doesn't happen, here's a possible program:

Ligeti: Atmosphères
Mahler: Andante from Symphony No. 6
Gubaidulina: String Quartet No. 3
...followed by something much more upbeat, like some traditional New Orleans jazz...(can't be morose the whole time)...

--Bruce
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Post by: mahlertitan on August 15, 2007, 11:27:51 AM
and after the Bruckner this (from an all time classic):
http://www.youtube.com/v/jHPOzQzk9Qo
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: Don on August 15, 2007, 11:46:59 AM
Quote from: bhodges on August 15, 2007, 11:25:06 AM
I would love almost anything live to be played at my memorial, as a composer I know did for his mother who died a few years ago.  (He did a very beautiful percussion piece - soft - that seemed very timeless.) 

But if that doesn't happen, here's a possible program:

Ligeti: Atmosphères
Mahler: Adagio from Symphony No. 6
Gubaidulina: String Quartet No. 3
...followed by something much more upbeat, like some traditional New Orleans jazz...(can't be morose the whole time)...

--Bruce


You must be planning on a very long funeral.
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: bhodges on August 15, 2007, 11:49:04 AM
Quote from: Don on August 15, 2007, 11:46:59 AM
You must be planning on a very long funeral.

;D

--Bruce
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: rach on August 15, 2007, 02:37:05 PM
Quote from: bhodges on August 15, 2007, 11:25:06 AM
I would love almost anything live to be played at my memorial, as a composer I know did for his mother who died a few years ago.  (He did a very beautiful percussion piece - soft - that seemed very timeless.) 

But if that doesn't happen, here's a possible program:

Ligeti: Atmosphères
Mahler: Adagio from Symphony No. 6
Gubaidulina: String Quartet No. 3
...followed by something much more upbeat, like some traditional New Orleans jazz...(can't be morose the whole time)...

--Bruce


Andante from M6 or adagio from M5???
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: mahlertitan on August 15, 2007, 02:40:29 PM
Quote from: rach on August 15, 2007, 02:37:05 PM
Andante from M6 or adagio from M5???

surely, you must've meant "Adagietto" from M5
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Post by: bhodges on August 15, 2007, 02:48:32 PM
Thanks for the correction: yes, the Andante movement from the Sixth.  (Sorry, got distracted by the chorus in Peter Grimes.  ;D)

I love the Adagietto from the Fifth, but the slow movements from Nos. 4 and 6 are my favorites. 

--Bruce
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Post by: Choo Choo on August 15, 2007, 05:56:22 PM
Vivaldi Concerto Funebre RV579.  Mixes sadness and joyfulness in just the right proportions.
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Post by: Anne on August 15, 2007, 06:40:27 PM
I have enjoyed this thread but it seems like it's always music for funerals.  How about music for your marriage?
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: mahlertitan on August 15, 2007, 07:27:28 PM
Quote from: Anne on August 15, 2007, 06:40:27 PM
I have enjoyed this thread but it seems like it's always music for funerals.  How about music for your marriage?

that would be too easy (thinking about a certain mozart opera)
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: Iago on August 15, 2007, 08:14:56 PM
Quote from: Anne on August 15, 2007, 06:40:27 PM
I have enjoyed this thread but it seems like it's always music for funerals.  How about music for your marriage?

To some people, music for a marriage would be exactly the same as music for a funeral.
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Post by: TheJoe on August 15, 2007, 08:29:40 PM
Scriabin - Preparation for the Final Mystery
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Post by: Bonehelm on August 15, 2007, 08:48:49 PM
Ode to Joy.

Yes, I'm that much hated.
Title: Re: What music would you like played at your funeral?
Post by: val on August 16, 2007, 01:01:53 AM
GUILLAUME DE MACHAUT:    Rondeau "Ma fin est mon commencement". By the Hilliard Ensemble.
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Post by: BachQ on August 16, 2007, 03:11:53 AM
Marche Funèbre by Cherubini
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Post by: Kullervo on August 16, 2007, 06:10:57 AM
Quote from: D Minor on August 16, 2007, 03:11:53 AM
Marche Funèbre by Cherubini

A little extravagant, don't you think? The tam-tam would scare the old women.
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Post by: mahlertitan on August 16, 2007, 08:13:03 AM
Quote from: Iago on August 15, 2007, 08:14:56 PM
To some people, music for a marriage would be exactly the same as music for a funeral.

Gustav Mahler
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Post by: loudav on August 18, 2007, 09:06:39 PM
I've never thought of this before, but I think I'd go with the shakuhachi piece Kokuu, if I have any say in the matter.
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Post by: Dundonnell on August 19, 2007, 03:06:11 PM
The last movement of Mahler's Symphony No.2-so beautiful, tear-inducing but uplifting,

AND-if I can get away with a second bit at the cherry-

the final 'Chorus Misticus" from Liszt's Faust Symphony. Now there is a piece of music to raise the rafters!