How to sleep with a shy girl

[Sean]

Or rather how not to: just had a week at this place in Italy, and cutting the story short the party included six girls in their late twenties, two of which I got on with well (I'm 38). Girl 1, who I'd got some chemistry going with first but neglected in favour of girl 2, then slept with this guy in his mid forties- who was running the place and giving orders. There was only one evening available to go for something, after a meal out: I call girl 2 over at an appropriate moment and keeping cool: '...I really like your personality, and you look stunning tonight...I've got a couple of things I'd like to show you in my room if you'd like to come down, kind of a surprise...it'll be okay...' (candle and insense sticks).

She nods enthusiastically but then understands what I'm saying, and to my surprise becomes rather shy, disappearing outside to the table to cower and attend to her fingernails. I've come across this before, but wasn't expecting it and have been wondering what else I could've done- perhaps thinking faster and asking her to stay and talk, as she wasn't going to take the opportunity to come back when I left the table to hang around. Another evening might have been good, as the next morning she comes over with the most excited and pleased excuses, and spends much of the day by my side.

In the night I had to put up with girl 1 next door having what was obviously pretty mediocre sex and making sounds with the sole purpose of me overhearing. The older guy had talked with her for four or five hours straight before making a move- a bit much I thought, but maybe I had something to learn there.

[greg]

do you even know the ladies' feelings about extramarital sex in the first place?

[AnthonyAthletic]

Giggitty Giggitty!!
All Riiiiight!!

[M forever]

Oh, no, Sean, no, not again, pleaaaaase nooooooooo...


But just so you can sleep better (if still alone), this should answer all your questions:

[George]

Diggedy Diggedy!!

Awwwwwwlllll  Riiiiiiiight. 

[AnthonyAthletic]

Glad you are with me George, I expect most American's will understand    My fellow Brits may be a bit slow on the uptake.

[Don]

Or rather how not to: just had a week at this place in Italy, and cutting the story short the party included six girls in their late twenties, two of which I got on with well (I'm 38). Girl 1, who I'd got some chemistry going with first but neglected in favour of girl 2, then slept with this guy in his mid forties- who was running the place and giving orders. There was only one evening available to go for something, after a meal out: I call girl 2 over at an appropriate moment and keeping cool: '...I really like your personality, and you look stunning tonight...I've got a couple of things I'd like to show you in my room if you'd like to come down, kind of a surprise...it'll be okay...' (candle and insense sticks).

She nods enthusiastically but then understands what I'm saying, and to my surprise becomes rather shy, disappearing outside to the table to cower and attend to her fingernails. I've come across this before, but wasn't expecting it and have been wondering what else I could've done- perhaps thinking faster and asking her to stay and talk, as she wasn't going to take the opportunity to come back when I left the table to hang around. Another evening might have been good, as the next morning she comes over with the most excited and pleased excuses, and spends much of the day by my side.

In the night I had to put up with girl 1 next door having what was obviously pretty mediocre sex and making sounds with the sole purpose of me overhearing. The older guy had talked with her for four or five hours straight before making a move- a bit much I thought, but maybe I had something to learn there.

What you need to learn is that love-making is more likely to happen in a natural fashion, not when you adopt some kind of strategy.

[George]

Glad you are with me George, I expect most American's will understand    My fellow Brits may be a bit slow on the uptake.

Excuse me, I don't wan't to come between you two....or do I? - Quagmire

[PerfectWagnerite]

Or rather how not to: just had a week at this place in Italy, and cutting the story short the party included six girls in their late twenties, two of which I got on with well (I'm 38). Girl 1, who I'd got some chemistry going with first but neglected in favour of girl 2, then slept with this guy in his mid forties- who was running the place and giving orders. There was only one evening available to go for something, after a meal out: I call girl 2 over at an appropriate moment and keeping cool: '...I really like your personality, and you look stunning tonight...I've got a couple of things I'd like to show you in my room if you'd like to come down, kind of a surprise...it'll be okay...' (candle and insense sticks).

She nods enthusiastically but then understands what I'm saying, and to my surprise becomes rather shy, disappearing outside to the table to cower and attend to her fingernails. I've come across this before, but wasn't expecting it and have been wondering what else I could've done- perhaps thinking faster and asking her to stay and talk, as she wasn't going to take the opportunity to come back when I left the table to hang around. Another evening might have been good, as the next morning she comes over with the most excited and pleased excuses, and spends much of the day by my side.

In the night I had to put up with girl 1 next door having what was obviously pretty mediocre sex and making sounds with the sole purpose of me overhearing. The older guy had talked with her for four or five hours straight before making a move- a bit much I thought, but maybe I had something to learn there.

For a long time I thought you were only into girls two decades younger than you, sorry, my bad.

ANYWAYS, I think you should have tried to tell her a joke of some sort. Something along the line of "ever hear of this baby seal that walked into a club" sort of thing. It doesn't have to the THAT funny. As long as you disarm her (well, not LITERALLY but you know what I mean). Once she laughs or giggles or whatever that's when she is vulnerable. You can shut her laugh up with a kiss then.

I kind of miss chasing girls, but that goes with having a wife and 2 daughters.

[bwv 1080]

Sean, perhaps you should consider limiting yourself to situations where a cash transaction can accomplish the desired outcome.

[George]

Excuse me, I don't wan't to come between you two....or do I? - Quagmire

Lessons for Sean

...and More lessons

...and still More lessons.

Awwwwlllll Riiiigght. 

[greg]

M, why didn't you warn us before posting that picture again?

i clean my eyes by watching this pointless video:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=VOvII2OavSI

[AnthonyAthletic]

Excuse me, I don't wan't to come between you two....or do I? - Quagmire

"My fellow Americans, I have not been entirely truthful with you. I did gagoogidy that girl. I gashmoygadied her gaflavity with my googus. And I am sorry" - Quagmire

[George]

"My fellow Americans, I have not been entirely truthful with you. I did gagoogidy that girl. I gashmoygadied her gaflavity with my googus. And I am sorry" - Quagmire

[MishaK]

Sean,

If she even talked to you in the first place she doesn't qualify for the definition of "shy".

[head-case]

Or rather how not to: just had a week at this place in Italy, and cutting the story short the party included six girls in their late twenties, two of which I got on with well (I'm 38). Girl 1, who I'd got some chemistry going with first but neglected in favour of girl 2, then slept with this guy in his mid forties- who was running the place and giving orders. There was only one evening available to go for something, after a meal out: I call girl 2 over at an appropriate moment and keeping cool: '...I really like your personality, and you look stunning tonight...I've got a couple of things I'd like to show you in my room if you'd like to come down, kind of a surprise...it'll be okay...' (candle and insense sticks).

She nods enthusiastically but then understands what I'm saying, and to my surprise becomes rather shy, disappearing outside to the table to cower and attend to her fingernails. I've come across this before, but wasn't expecting it and have been wondering what else I could've done- perhaps thinking faster and asking her to stay and talk, as she wasn't going to take the opportunity to come back when I left the table to hang around. Another evening might have been good, as the next morning she comes over with the most excited and pleased excuses, and spends much of the day by my side.

In the night I had to put up with girl 1 next door having what was obviously pretty mediocre sex and making sounds with the sole purpose of me overhearing. The older guy had talked with her for four or five hours straight before making a move- a bit much I thought, but maybe I had something to learn there.

Why does this remind me of that recurrent skit on Saturday Night Live, "The Continental" with Christopher Walken.

[aquablob]

In the night I had to put up with girl 1 next door having what was obviously pretty mediocre sex and making sounds with the sole purpose of me overhearing.

Doubt it

[Sean]

Sean, perhaps you should consider limiting yourself to situations where a cash transaction can accomplish the desired outcome.

Well what was going on next door certainly seemed a lot less genuine than say picking up a Thai girl out to be shown a good night.

[orbital]

Another evening might have been good, as the next morning she comes over with the most excited and pleased excuses, and spends much of the day by my side.

There is no reason why sex should not occur during daytime. Since the day was spent by your side without anything physical taking place, it may be best to think that she just wasn't interested in having sex with you (or perhaps with anyone for that matter).

[PerfectWagnerite]

There is no reason why sex should not occur during daytime. Since the day was spent by your side without anything physical taking place, it may be best to think that she just wasn't interested in having sex with you (or perhaps with anyone for that matter).

No way, I think girls want to have sex just as much as men do.