cold sores

[маразм1]

Hi all.
I have a problem.  This girl who happens to be an ex-gf of mine is driving me crazy.  She thought she had a cold sore and that I got her infected.  She got tested and is clear.  Now she's telling me that I'm irresponsible and I have this extremely contagious incurable disease that I can spread to everybody I come in contact with.

But the truth of the matter is that yes I have cold sores every once in a while.  It's not an STD -- I've had it since I was I don't know, an infant.  What do you guys think?  I know that more than 70 percent of people have them and nobody makes such a big deal out of it.  Should I be?  Should I now provide a disclaimer before kissing a girl? 

help!
d. 

[Holden]

Hi all.
I have a problem.  This girl who happens to be an ex-gf of mine is driving me crazy.  She thought she had a cold sore and that I got her infected.  She got tested and is clear.  Now she's telling me that I'm irresponsible and I have this extremely contagious incurable disease that I can spread to everybody I come in contact with.

But the truth of the matter is that yes I have cold sores every once in a while.  It's not an STD -- I've had it since I was I don't know, an infant.  What do you guys think?  I know that more than 70 percent of people have them and nobody makes such a big deal out of it.  Should I be?  Should I now provide a disclaimer before kissing a girl?

help!
d. 

Yes, you possibly should (just joking) but this site will tell you why you will never be free of herpes simplex and possibly why your ex was not infected by you

http://www.medicinenet.com/herpes_simplex_infections_non-genital/article.htm