So I Like This Woman At Work...

[ibanezmonster]

Ha... I posted this over a month ago?
Not sure if this girl even works with me any more... never got a chance to talk to her, never found out her name. She looked verrrry good, though.

I never learn... just straight out pessimism, even if it's unrealistic, seems to be more reliable than realistic optimism. 

She does still work with me, but I've only gotten to talk to her once in 3 months. She seems nice.
To skip over some of the details... she basically has 2 boyfriends at the same time; I work with one have seen the other several times. Kind of surprised at her picks. They all three share a silver Mercedes. Also, I've learned that she is a "party animal." 

Almost reminds me of the other girls I've known the last few years. They all either have a million guys after them at the same time, a kid, or both. I don't understand this, and honestly, most females are just boring, so I don't get the appeal. All they care about is drinking and partying. How is that interesting?

[Mirror Image]

She does still work with me, but I've only gotten to talk to her once in 3 months. She seems nice.
To skip over some of the details... she basically has 2 boyfriends at the same time; I work with one have seen the other several times. Kind of surprised at her picks. They all three share a silver Mercedes. Also, I've learned that she is a "party animal." 

Almost reminds me of the other girls I've known the last few years. They all either have a million guys after them at the same time, a kid, or both. I don't understand this, and honestly, most females are just boring, so I don't get the appeal. All they care about is drinking and partying. How is that interesting?

I know what you mean my friend. I would also like to add that many of these women of our generation are so unrealistic about what they're looking for and what they want. Like for example, I asked a woman the other night what she looks for in a guy and she gave me a 20 minute explanation. I said to myself as she was blabbering on "No wonder she's single!" What she's looking for she'll never find. She's looking for perfection and it doesn't exist. These are the women that will never be pleased and always puts the guy they're with up on a pedestal that they will never reach.

Of course, you then have the types where they seem to love being verbally or physically abused because they keep going back their ex-boyfriend and getting treated like crap over and over again. I never understood this at all. Like, for example, I asked a woman out tonight but she said she can't go out on a date because she's in a "ghost relationship." WTF? She then explained that she's not really with the guy, but when he comes around to her again, they're dating. She also called him a "bastard." So, I looked at her, smiled, and said "Good luck chasing something that will never work out." I usually stay far away from these women. I'm actually thankful she rejected me.

[ibanezmonster]

I know what you mean my friend. I would also like to add that many of these women of our generation are so unrealistic about what they're looking for and what they want. Like for example, I asked a woman the other night what she looks for in a guy and she gave me a 20 minute explanation. I said to myself as she was blabbering on "No wonder she's single!" What she's looking for she'll never find. She's looking for perfection and it doesn't exist. These are the women that will never be pleased and always puts the guy they're with up on a pedestal that they will never reach.

I haven't met any girls like this recently, but I don't doubt they are out there.
This sounds similar to the typical situation of young people in Japan. If you want to know how things will likely be in America in 20 years, look there. 
Process of decline for the world's greatest economies: 1) Have a real estate bubble and greedy banks capitalizing off of risky loans; 2) Enter recession; 3) Falling birth rates; 4) Not enough young people to support the old people; 5) Grow the national debt because of 4; 6) Economy stagnates because of debt; 7) repeat 3-6 until young people are wiped out and society gets old and dies.

At least this is my best guess.
3) One reason of falling birth rates is that women do not change their expectations of a man during a recession. Each generation, reasonably, wants to do at least as good as their parents. Maybe in the 90s, women could put up with a man close enough to her expectations because he had enough money. And people like me learn from friends who have had to live in their cars because of child support, despite working 50 hours a week.

Of course, you then have the types where they seem to love being verbally or physically abused because they keep going back their ex-boyfriend and getting treated like crap over and over again. I never understood this at all. Like, for example, I asked a woman out tonight but she said she can't go out on a date because she's in a "ghost relationship." WTF? She then explained that she's not really with the guy, but when he comes around to her again, they're dating. She also called him a "bastard." So, I looked at her, smiled, and said "Good luck chasing something that will never work out." I usually stay far away from these women. I'm actually thankful she rejected me.

Yeah, that's pretty typical, too, and I'm familiar with that.
I think many of them envision a dream guy a ten-foot tall, 1000-pound bodybuilder who is a football player astronaut multi-trillionaire king of the universe. And they need to be a mega douchebag. That's what they find attractive. (50 shades of grey?...)



There are some reasonable ones out there, but they seem to be the minority.

[The new erato]

There are some reasonable ones out there, but they seem to be the minority.

That's because we nice guys have grabbed them.

[ibanezmonster]

That's because we nice guys have grabbed them.

I should have clarified: you live in another country. I'm talking about American women. Your opinion doesn't count. 

[Geo Dude]

Almost reminds me of the other girls I've known the last few years. They all either have a million guys after them at the same time, a kid, or both. I don't understand this, and honestly, most females are just boring, so I don't get the appeal. All they care about is drinking and partying. How is that interesting?

[ibanezmonster]

The image isn't showing up, even when I visit the URL.

[ibanezmonster]

I just went to the gym and saw a guy I work with who goes there often. He mentioned him and another girl that works with us... you know. (didn't know that before)
So out of the 3 girls I work with that I would maybe think about, 2 of them have 2 guys at once... ewwwww. 

I've never known a guy that could get away with something like that. Men need to develop a backbone and actually be comfortable alone, rather than be desperate enough to share a girl with some other guy. That's kind of nasty.

[Geo Dude]

The image isn't showing up, even when I visit the URL.

This should work.

[ibanezmonster]

This should work.

Well, I guess wolves aren't too far off from dogs... 

[Mirror Image]

I haven't met any girls like this recently, but I don't doubt they are out there.
This sounds similar to the typical situation of young people in Japan. If you want to know how things will likely be in America in 20 years, look there. 
Process of decline for the world's greatest economies: 1) Have a real estate bubble and greedy banks capitalizing off of risky loans; 2) Enter recession; 3) Falling birth rates; 4) Not enough young people to support the old people; 5) Grow the national debt because of 4; 6) Economy stagnates because of debt; 7) repeat 3-6 until young people are wiped out and society gets old and dies.

At least this is my best guess.
3) One reason of falling birth rates is that women do not change their expectations of a man during a recession. Each generation, reasonably, wants to do at least as good as their parents. Maybe in the 90s, women could put up with a man close enough to her expectations because he had enough money. And people like me learn from friends who have had to live in their cars because of child support, despite working 50 hours a week.



Yeah, that's pretty typical, too, and I'm familiar with that.
I think many of them envision a dream guy a ten-foot tall, 1000-pound bodybuilder who is a football player astronaut multi-trillionaire king of the universe. And they need to be a mega douchebag. That's what they find attractive. (50 shades of grey?...)



There are some reasonable ones out there, but they seem to be the minority.

Hopefully, by the time all of this happens, I'll be living in another country. There are some genuinely honest American women out there. They're just incredibly difficult for me to find, but I'm not too worried about it. I've been alone for many, many years. I've always been a loner anyway. I would rather be alone than have to put up with a woman's unrealistic expectations, because they're not going to change me, just like I'm not going to try to change them. They need to learn how to accept the guy's flaws.

[Mirror Image]

I should have clarified: you live in another country. I'm talking about American women. Your opinion doesn't count. 

No offense to the Norwegians or the Danes, but Sweden is like a cornucopia of uber-babes.

[North Star]

No offense to the Norwegians or the Danes, but Sweden is like a cornucopia of uber-babes.

Stockholm is full of them, certainly.

[Mirror Image]

Stockholm is full of them, certainly.

Maybe that's where I need to move. FYI, I have a friend on FB who lives in Norrkoping and you should see the women he's befriended. I think you could go to a little village in Sweden in the middle of nowhere and find one easily. They just come out of the buildings by the truckloads.

[snyprrr]

No offense to the Norwegians or the Danes, but Sweden is like a cornucopia of uber-babes.

Oh, what?,... they're not dating the african immigrants? You know swedes and their 'social conscience'??