More Girl Problems

[snyprrr]

So, I go bowling with my friend again last night and just seeing couple our age... kinda annoys me.

First dream: Holding hands with cutest girl I used to know (RIP), nothing besides that happens.

Second dream: I'm dreaming and I'm in some type of doctor's office where couples are assigned to have sex in rooms for some type of observation/experiment (?), and I even see one couple naked and excited. (There's also the "grindr" room for gay couples, but luckily I didn't see that part lol). So, as soon as I'm about to ask the doctor if I could participate in this experiment, my alarm goes off.

I told another friend I'd meet them early to play basketball. I drive to the court and they aren't there.

This is the tip of the iceberg of what I could complain about. And since I'm not allowed to drink despite being of age to do so 7 years ago, any wonder why I try to consume my mind with video games?

We're ALL slipping, trust me.

[ibanezmonster]

So... what types of girls do you guys like?

Personally, this girl has been my favorite for the last several years. I guess my favorite type is the really girly and goofy type, even if she's the biggest airhead ever (that also plays guitar!). Too bad she isn't real... I wish I knew any real girls that I could actually fall in love with, because it's kinda impossible with someone who isn't even real. 




Hmmm... 

[Karl Henning]

So... what types of girls do you guys like?

A girl with a lively intelligence.

[ibanezmonster]

A girl with a lively intelligence.

Same here.

[jochanaan]

One who speaks her heart.

[Karl Henning]

So long as it be a good heart that she speaks 

[Mirror Image]

So... what types of girls do you guys like?

I like women that are intelligent, funny, and that genuinely care about people. Sometimes I'm prone to melancholic emotional states of mind and it would be nice to have someone who has a more 'sunny' disposition.

[ibanezmonster]

I like women that are intelligent, funny, and that genuinely care about people. Sometimes I'm prone to melancholic emotional states of mind and it would be nice to have someone who has a more 'sunny' disposition.

That's exactly me... sunshine to offset the gloom and doom lol. Someone who is silly and smiles a lot, not too serious. Basically the opposite of me is what I find attractive for a female. (other than the silliness- which I can outdo most people if I'm in that rare state of mind)

So long as it be a good heart that she speaks 

Lol, definitely.

[snyprrr]

How bout one that actually likes me? oy vey


The current prospect: been sort of dating, she came to the house, I just went to her house, she thinks I'm all talented and the usual,...


BUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUT


everytime it's time to say goodbye it's all ack-ward and she turns her head when I try to kiss her. It's going to end soon ... this is now where I've been countless times lately...


really gitls? I'm just here to be YOUR personal muse and nothing else??? I thought it was you who were supposed to be the muse. I mean, you've inspired three songs out of ME, how many songs about me have YOU written? SO THEN- it is I who "love" you with songs, and attentions, and listen,... and it is YOU who REWARD me with what I NEEED to sustain me, namely, the "you-guessed-it". Yea, I don't really care about the mind anymore- both mindful, and mindless girls have reeeeejected me over the course of this plank, so, no, the mind and all that comes with it is irrelevant.

There is ONLY one qualification: you must like me ENOUGH to give "it" "up",... and you suuure well know that that is your worth, for you so readily withhold it from your suitor.

AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH


IT ENDS TONIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!








(so, I take it no one's had ANY action since at least the first of the year, hmmm?)

[Henk]

(so, I take it no one's had ANY action since at least the first of the year, hmmm?)

Well on Twitter, Friendlife and FB if that counts.

Just doing preparing stuff..

[Henk]

So... what types of girls do you guys like?

Sweet, bold, pretty girls that find me funny and like to play.

[Mirror Image]

Considering I have no luck at all ---- I like women that breathe.

[ibanezmonster]

(so, I take it no one's had ANY action since at least the first of the year, hmmm?)

We listen to classical music, what do you expect?

Considering I have no luck at all ---- I like women that breathe.

But you might have better luck with women that don't breathe.

*insert drum and cymbal sound*

[Karl Henning]

Tough crowd! 

[ZauberdrachenNr.7]

...I mean, you've inspired three songs out of ME, how many songs about me have YOU written? SO THEN- it is I who "love" you with songs, and attentions, and listen,...(so, I take it no one's had ANY action since at least the first of the year, hmmm?)

Snipe's sad plight recalls to me Gabriel Fauré 's setting of Verlaine's poem, Mandoline :

"Et c'est Damis qui pour mainte
Cruelle fit maint vers tendre."

[ibanezmonster]

And now time to make a dark thread darker! 




Too bad I've only seen her once in one of my lucid dreams. She was sleeping and then I just woke up.  Definitely would love to jam with that band, having interesting conversations with them, etc. I've had some more successes lucid dreaming lately, but it's still not easy.

That's the appeal of lucid dreaming, though... you can make the impossible possible. If I still believed in heaven, I'd actually be taking that picture seriously. The one thing you want most you can either get now or wait 60 years? Pfffffff. Yeah, if I were a young Muslim living in some poor country with no hope for anything, I'd definitely become a suicide bomber. I totally get the appeal.

[ibanezmonster]

Last night... was different. I actually went to a club with a friend. Not that I like clubs, but just out of sheer boredom and wanting to go somewhere different...

So, I've never seen that many young, pretty girls in one place. My friend and her friend went hunting for guys and got some phone numbers, so I guess I probably could have done the same if I wanted to. The main problem is that I just don't dance, so when I was near the dance floor just watching my friends dance, I just avoided eye contact with any girls that looked like they might ask me. I've just always hated party music (or practically anything pop or similar), so never took any time to learn how to dance because I've never wanted to. And my friend's friend yelling at me "You gotta be more social! Taaaaaaaaaaalk to people!" lol

Probably the main entertainment was my friend, a grown woman, reverting to sounding like a retarded 5 year old after drinking too much. Beer can take 16 years off your (mental) age!

It's just ridiculous with my parents freaking out that I might have "drank or alcohol or had sex" because I got home so late. They can't even fall asleep until I get home. Basically, I'm 27 but have to live like I'm 17. If I even successfully picked up a girl, they would automatically hate her just because I met her in a club or a bar. So where exactly again do you meet women if not at work? Cause I could ask for more phone numbers in one night at a club than I could have 8 years of working at the same place.

But really, once I eventually have a good job and don't mind paying $60/month for a good phone, I'll use Tinder since I here that's what everyone else is using nowadays. I just don't like clubs and would rather not have to feign interest in crappy music and dancing just to get a girlfriend.

[Mirror Image]

Last night... was different. I actually went to a club with a friend. Not that I like clubs, but just out of sheer boredom and wanting to go somewhere different...

So, I've never seen that many young, pretty girls in one place. My friend and her friend went hunting for guys and got some phone numbers, so I guess I probably could have done the same if I wanted to. The main problem is that I just don't dance, so when I was near the dance floor just watching my friends dance, I just avoided eye contact with any girls that looked like they might ask me. I've just always hated party music (or practically anything pop or similar), so never took any time to learn how to dance because I've never wanted to. And my friend's friend yelling at me "You gotta be more social! Taaaaaaaaaaalk to people!" lol

Probably the main entertainment was my friend, a grown woman, reverting to sounding like a retarded 5 year old after drinking too much. Beer can take 16 years off your (mental) age!

It's just ridiculous with my parents freaking out that I might have "drank or alcohol or had sex" because I got home so late. They can't even fall asleep until I get home. Basically, I'm 27 but have to live like I'm 17. If I even successfully picked up a girl, they would automatically hate her just because I met her in a club or a bar. So where exactly again do you meet women if not at work? Cause I could ask for more phone numbers in one night at a club than I could have 8 years of working at the same place.

But really, once I eventually have a good job and don't mind paying $60/month for a good phone, I'll use Tinder since I here that's what everyone else is using nowadays. I just don't like clubs and would rather not have to feign interest in crappy music and dancing just to get a girlfriend.

Why do you always have to overcomplicate things, Greg? If you're looking for the 'perfect woman,' she doesn't exist. What it sounds like to me is a woman you meet at a club, for example, can never meet your standards. Everyone has flaws including you. Stop being such a shallow person. If I'm wrong, then, by all means, call me out on it, but I think you're behaving like a child. Who cares if you're home late? You're 27 years old. Who cares if your parents disapprove of a woman you met at a club or bar? If they're that judgmental, then perhaps you should have a little talk with them about how you're old enough to decide who is right for you and who isn't.

My own situation is quite simple: I like this woman at work (she's a customer) and I know she likes me, but she has a phobia about handing me out her number and wants me to come see her at the restaurant she works. Well, she no longer works at this restaurant, so the next time I see her I'm going for it. I'm laying it all on the line and I don't give a damn what she thinks. If she truly likes me, then she'll agree with every word I tell her and feel the same way. Other than this, I don't have much going on.

[ibanezmonster]

What it sounds like to me is a woman you meet at a club, for example, can never meet your standards.

Not sure how I made it sound like that. The point I was trying to make is that it was full of girls that I might be interested. Actually, the thought of actually getting a phone number somehow didn't even occur to me the whole time I was there; but after the fact, I'm just thinking of what I would have to do if I ever wanted to go back and actually ask for a number. I'm not good with meeting new people or parties- AT ALL. So yeah, it's complicated to me because I have no experience dancing/picking up women.

Who cares if you're home late? You're 27 years old. Who cares if your parents disapprove of a woman you met at a club or bar? If they're that judgmental, then perhaps you should have a little talk with them about how you're old enough to decide who is right for you and who isn't.

Sometimes you just don't want to hear the complaints. And you know, I can't afford to live on my own yet. So they have their own rules which have nothing to do with my age.

My own situation is quite simple: I like this woman at work (she's a customer) and I know she likes me, but she has a phobia about handing me out her number and wants me to come see her at the restaurant she works. Well, she no longer works at this restaurant, so the next time I see her I'm going for it. I'm laying it all on the line and I don't give a damn what she thinks. If she truly likes me, then she'll agree with every word I tell her and feel the same way. Other than this, I don't have much going on.

Cool, good luck!

[Mirror Image]

Not sure how I made it sound like that. The point I was trying to make is that it was full of girls that I might be interested. Actually, the thought of actually getting a phone number somehow didn't even occur to me the whole time I was there; but after the fact, I'm just thinking of what I would have to do if I ever wanted to go back and actually ask for a number. I'm not good with meeting new people or parties- AT ALL. So yeah, it's complicated to me because I have no experience dancing/picking up women.

Sometimes you just don't want to hear the complaints. And you know, I can't afford to live on my own yet. So they have their own rules which have nothing to do with my age.


Cool, good luck!

Thanks, Greg.

Are your parents that inflexible that they won't allow you to have a life outside of the house? I know you have to live with them right now, but jeez man it sounds like they need to get a grip and come to terms with the fact that you're not a kid anymore. Do you pay them rent or help them pay bills? If you do, then they need to understand that you're allowed to come and go as you please.

As for picking up women, you don't have to be good at it, you just have to actually try. Rejection is a part of it, but there are plenty of fish in the sea. If you see a cute woman at a club again (if you go back), then don't be afraid to approach her. You should really be more confident in yourself. We'll all equal on this planet and no one is above anyone else unless you're a criminal, rapist, murderer, etc. Of course, I'm better and you're better than those people.