More Girl Problems

[Henk]

I already have a hard history with girls.

The worst thing, to confess one thing, the rest is innocence, for which I feel still guilty is that I tweeted Bar Refaeli, a model, and took her the advice to postpone pregnancy till she would be 36 years old. For in this way she could enjoy her youth longer. I think there was a cause for it, but I don't know exactly any more.

I feel still bad about it with panical feelings at times, like now. What if I damaged her for maybe whole her life?

[Henk]

I wrote her more tweets, innocent, but still there is a context of tweets and she might have internalized things. I think not, but a FB photo of her with a serious face, which can be interpreted as sad, triggers the whole thing, like other things as well. So I wait now, worried and questioning my consience, to see her happy.

[ibanezmonster]

I've seen pictures of that lady. She needs to eat a bit more IMO, she looks nearly malnourished. Then again, most models seem to look like that.

[Henk]

Also people looking at my Twitter favourites could think that I am some sort of pervert, which makes things worse. I reflect on this now, because I stopped with it.

Is collecting pictures of sexy women perverse?

I have my own codes for it, and so I can look myself in the mirror and that's what counts for me. But it's not easy getting all kind of signals at once that you are a some kind of pervert.

[Henk]

The only thing it makes sad. Masturbating is the most saddest thing a human can do, said Harry Mulisch.

So it can influence your whole life in a bad way. But I have found a solution for myself, to have the love I need. Doesn't fix everything however, but I can live with it.

[Henk]

From now on I just gonna put my antrophology glasses on watching young people's behaviour.

[ibanezmonster]

A more personal advice (to some) might be: grow up a little, get rid of all those Teenage Kicks and start thinking of the other sexe as (mature) WOMEN instead of (childish) girls.

Talk about describing the type of women I don't like. I don't think that has anything to do with growing up, either. I have to be mature, goal-oriented and work-oriented to get through each day already. It's not fun. Telling me something that is about as futile as telling a gay man to go straight- you can't help which personality type you are attracted to, either.

Some older women can retain that type of personality, and I think it's an attractive quality. For example, my FF11 linkshell leader or my friend's mom. (Though I'm not into women 20 years older than me). My FF11 linkshell leader, I swear, I could almost have fallen in love with just reading her chat and not looking at a picture. Greeting ten people individually like "hi Greg ," "hi otherperson " or accidentally typing into the wrong chat 3 times in a row is just hilarious and endearing at the same time.

Probably why I joke about marrying that anime character, Yui Hirasawa. The looks, the moe/cute/goofy personality and being interested in something I also like (playing guitar). Many women have the first two or the last two qualities, but I've yet to encounter one that has all three. Even in fiction it's somewhat rare. I don't think I could ever not be attracted while recalling the scenes of her rolling around the floor while reading a manga, only to stop to eat a single potato and then giggle; or sleeping with her guitar; or randomly making a messed up looking claw and remarking that it's a D Minor chord. She also never gets angry at anyone. If someone just like her existed in the real world, I'd probably lose my mind- it would be the only thing that would encourage me to have a traditional sort of male role: marry and have kids with her, letting her stay at home and working for her to make her life easy. But for now, I really don't see the point of working for anyone else, marrying, or having kids.

[ibanezmonster]

Of course, there's too much of a good thing, too. My friend, for example, has that sort of personality, but when she gets drunk and talks like a 5 year old, there's nothing attractive about that at all.

[Henk]

Greg, there's nowadays a lot of talk about "designer babies". If that will become reality, or let's say rather you would have been a product of it, then you would become happy?

That's in my view a danger of todays society. People like you, just saying it rude, but I value you high, have certain expectations beforehand, your reality is pre-structured by virtual worlds in which you develop certain artificial preferences served for you by others.. The things you mention are just memes.

Genetical modification is an interesting topic however, of which much things can be said as well of virtual worlds, social media etcetera. It will change everything, it already does so.. the thing is we must take the benefits of it.

[Rinaldo]

I wrote her more tweets, innocent, but still there is a context of tweets and she might have internalized things. I think not, but a FB photo of her with a serious face, which can be interpreted as sad, triggers the whole thing, like other things as well. So I wait now, worried and questioning my consience, to see her happy.

Henk, in the unlikely case you're not trolling us to oblivion, let me say this: if you seriously believe a celebrity of any kind cares about what you tweet, your perception of reality needs fixing.

[Henk]

Probably why I joke about marrying that anime character, Yui Hirasawa. The looks, the moe/cute/goofy personality and being interested in something I also like (playing guitar). Many women have the first two or the last two qualities, but I've yet to encounter one that has all three. Even in fiction it's somewhat rare. I don't think I could ever not be attracted while recalling the scenes of her rolling around the floor while reading a manga, only to stop to eat a single potato and then giggle; or sleeping with her guitar; or randomly making a messed up looking claw and remarking that it's a D Minor chord. She also never gets angry at anyone. If someone just like her existed in the real world, I'd probably lose my mind

There are people who actually discover such things in their lover before expecting it. That's rather real love. Yours can only be dissillusion. Even, Greg, when you find a girl like it, I think it won't work. There's always something that doesn't match your 'constructed' ideal.

[Henk]

More symptoms of The Nietzsche Disease?

No.

[(poco) Sforzando]

Well, Shakespeare wrote Macbeth, and he certainly killed a notable royal while sleeping as his honored guest 

This dismal thread is certainly getting more activity than the legitimate Shakespeare thread.

[Karl Henning]

This dismal thread is certainly getting more activity than the legitimate Shakespeare thread.

"Dismal" is le mot juste.

[Brian]

Henk, in the unlikely case you're not trolling us to oblivion, let me say this: if you seriously believe a celebrity of any kind cares about what you tweet, your perception of reality needs fixing.

I think Henk needs to seek out counseling and the assistance of professionals with some of his thoughts and mental habits.

[Mirror Image]

This thread has certainly made a turn for the worse. It really should be put out of its misery. Mods...what do you think?

[Henk]

Henk, in the unlikely case you're not trolling us to oblivion, let me say this: if you seriously believe a celebrity of any kind cares about what you tweet, your perception of reality needs fixing.

I'm not reassured.

More symptoms of The Nietzsche Disease?

Or maybe rather yes. I can say much things about it, but I will not elaborate further.

I think Henk needs to seek out counseling and the assistance of professionals with some of his thoughts and mental habits.

That was also my thought, Brian. Thanks.

[The new erato]

This thread has certainly made a turn for the worse. It really should be put out of its misery. Mods...what do you think?

Depressing, pathetic and pretty scary is my reaction to some of the postings going on here.

[Que]

This thread has certainly made a turn for the worse. It really should be put out of its misery. Mods...what do you think?

Depressing, pathetic and pretty scary is my reaction to some of the postings going on here.

You guys must have read my mind....My finger has been hovering over the "lock" button for a few days now....

Let me at least put this poor thread out of its misery.... 

Q