More Girl Problems

[ibanezmonster]

So in the town/city you currently live in there are absolutely no women from the ages 21-26 that are attractive and single? What is the population in the town/city you live in?

There are, just nothing like it is in the city. Within preferable driving distance, about 30,000 people. And the area is more designed for retired people.

And where I live feels like an island... it's like a 20 minute radius where people are. Past that, you have 30 minutes of nearly uninhabited areas, with the exception of one town.

Regardless, I'm not sure how serious I can take all of this until I move. I'm not interested in one-night stands, and if I move in 6 months or so, what's the point of dating someone that lives nearby?

[ZauberdrachenNr.7]

There are, just nothing like it is in the city. Within preferable driving distance, about 30,000 people. And the area is more designed for retired people.

And where I live feels like an island... it's like a 20 minute radius where people are. Past that, you have 30 minutes of nearly uninhabited areas, with the exception of one town.

Regardless, I'm not sure how serious I can take all of this until I move. I'm not interested in one-night stands, and if I move in 6 months or so, what's the point of dating someone that lives nearby?

IMHO : way too much hesitation & cerebration, not enough celebration!

[ibanezmonster]

IMHO : way too much hesitation & cerebration, not enough celebration!

Cerebration... now that's a word I haven't heard before. Kinda like "cerebral," but sounds like a stereotypical Asian pronounciation of "celebration." lol 

[Ken B]

Cerebration... now that's a word I haven't heard before.

Well, cerebration is rare.

[Karl Henning]

Well, cerebration is rare.

And may be dangerous in the hands of the amateur.

[(poco) Sforzando]

Delius certainly helps my insomnia as well. Not that there's anything wrong with that of course.

I once thought of writing a skit (sort of a parody of Haydn's Farewell Symphony) where all the orchestra players playing a Delius piece fall asleep, one by one. But I couldn't stay awake to finish it.

[Ken B]

I once thought of writing a skit (sort of a parody of Haydn's Farewell Symphony) where all the orchestra players playing a Delius piece fall asleep, one by one. But I couldn't stay awake to finish it.

You need an amanuensis for that.

[ibanezmonster]

Got this guy that I've known for five years asking if I wanted to be his boyfriend. Lol. 

What joyous news. 

[Mirror Image]

Got this guy that I've known for five years asking if I wanted to be his boyfriend. Lol. 

What joyous news. 

Oh jeez....dude...run! Just run!

[(poco) Sforzando]

Oh jeez....dude...run! Just run!

No, don't do that. It was probably very difficult for him to have taken that risk after five years. You need to find a way to tell him you're not interested without humiliating him or sacrificing whatever friendship you may have had.

[ibanezmonster]

No, don't do that. It was probably very difficult for him to have taken that risk after five years. You need to find a way to tell him you're not interested without humiliating him or sacrificing whatever friendship you may have had.

Haha, it's all cool. We just laughed and went on to talk about other stuff.
"Have a girlfriend?" "No." "Have a boyfriend?" "Noooooo." "Wanna be my boyfriend?" Then we just laughed. Being casual and keeping expectations low is how you do it.

Now that I realize it, that's the third time a guy has shown interest in my, at least hoping I were bisexual.

[Mirror Image]

That's a good way of handling it. Of course, I was kidding when I said run. This is a good friend of yours after all, so it's best to be honest.

[(poco) Sforzando]

OK, that's better. 

[Mirror Image]

OK, that's better. 

[The Six]

Now that I realize it, that's the third time a guy has shown interest in my, at least hoping I were bisexual.

Are you sure you're not? You might as well try. You could find your anime boy, instead.

[ibanezmonster]

Squall is my video game-kin, though. And Rinoa is my video game wife.




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My anime-kin is Gohan, anime wife is Yui Hirasawa, even though different anime, but whatever... 

[(poco) Sforzando]

Squall is my video game-kin, though. And Rinoa is my video game wife.

My anime-kin is Gohan, anime wife is Yui Hirasawa, even though different anime, but whatever... 

No wonder he wants to be your boyfriend.

[ibanezmonster]

No wonder he wants to be your boyfriend.

I don't think he's into that stuff, though. He's 23 years older than me, for one (though only looks 10-15 years older).

[snyprrr]

Got this guy that I've known for five years asking if I wanted to be his boyfriend. Lol. 

What joyous news. 

1) gREG "CAN'T FIND" A GIRL.

2) gREG IS "INTO" aNIME.

3) (whoops) Greg now has issued an invite to his Coming Out Party.



Oh, Greg, where did we go wrong here???




"Hey, brah, ... bein' my good bud an all, could you help jerk me while we both watch this porn naked on the couch? I mean, we're just bros, but, hey, isn't that what a brah is for?"



This happened to me in the '90s, greg,... I know,... you want to joke about it now,... but,... if you need a shoulder, I'm here for you!





BTW- got the "can't make it" message today- am calling now----- gulp,.... "two week curse" in effect? hope not,.... I've been having THAT feeling....



OK- just called,- obviously had to leave a short message,... yea, bummed,... all the signs are there,...



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[ibanezmonster]

I really don't get the joke... not sure what being gay has to do with anime. If anything, the anime community tends to be more heterosexual than normal. Where I work (a hardware store) there tends to be more gays and lesbians than the general population. So where are you people going with that?