Schoolgirl crushes

[Henk]

Sorry dude, but your strategy won't work.

Why not? But if it fails, I'll stay stubborn in my love for her. However, there's another aspect and that's that women want babies.

[(poco) Sforzando]

Sensible words, Harry. Maar "de verstandigheid moet men aan de dommen laten" (sensibility is for the dumbs) .
My live gets worthless if I stop being faithfull to my love for her. It's not that I wait for her, I'm convinced she waits for someone, but doesn't know it's me. It's because of my clumsieness . But one thing I finally did was OK, I made real contact with her and now I'm playing the gentleman . I will wait for the effect and that takes long I expect. What if that effect doesn't take place at all? I simply can't believe that.

Harry is right. Don't force this. If she's interested, she'll let you know. If not, move on.

[Henk]

Harry is right. Don't force this. If she's interested, she'll let you know. If not, move on.

Ok, but can I love another woman, not thinking of her? Isn't that unfair?

[Henk]

Sorry dude, but your strategy won't work.

Is it a strategy? I think there's simply not other way, it's a destiny.

[Florestan]

Ok, but can I love another woman, not thinking of her? Isn't that unfair?

Unfair to whom? Did she love you in the past? How long have you not seen her?

[Henk]

Unfair to whom? Did she love you in the past? How long have you not seen her?

To the other woman, not her. No she did not love me. I have seen her 1,5 year ago for the last time.

[Mozart]

Why not? But if it fails, I'll stay stubborn in my love for her. However, there's another aspect and that's that women want babies.

1) you need to stop trying so hard to impress her
2) being a gentleman doesn't work
3) you need to keep your emotions more in check (the hardest part)

[Florestan]

To the other woman, not her. No she did not love me. I have seen her 1,5 year ago for the last time.

Are you single now?

[Harry]

To the other woman, not her. No she did not love me. I have seen her 1,5 year ago for the last time.

So its stalking afterall huh!
This kind of stubbornness will get you in more trouble than you wish for, believe me, I am a tad older than you, and maybe, but just maybe know a thing or two more about this?!

[Henk]

Are you single now?

Yes. But, btw interesting to tell, once I was in a sphere with her, without actually being with her. A space as a sphere. Fantastic feeling! I later also saw spheres around buildings.

[Harry]

Yes. But, btw interesting to tell, once I was in a sphere with her, without actually being with her. A space as a sphere. Fantastic feeling! I later also saw spheres around buildings.

You begin to elude me my friend.

[Florestan]

Yes. But, btw interesting to tell, once I was in a sphere with her, without actually being with her. A space as a sphere. Fantastic feeling! I later also saw spheres around buildings.

I don't get the spheres part, but if I were you I'd try to forget her and move on. Harry is right: if you can't let go a schooltime crush you're in for deep troubles.

[Henk]

So its stalking afterall huh!
This kind of stubbornness will get you in more trouble than you wish for, believe me, I am a tad older than you, and maybe, but just maybe know a thing or two more about this?!

Ok. But is there another way? I explained I don't see it. But let it rest for now, I have some other interesting thoughts about it now, thanks to you guys.

Don't be stubborn. Move on. She will make contact if she wants anything. But other women isn't an option since it's unfair when I'm thinking of her while I should have my mind with the other woman. But maybe with some time this fades out. But the spheres-experience was really radical. For now there's simply no other way then this, I think.

[Mozart]

Ok. But is there another way? I explained I don't see it. But let it rest for now, I have some other interesting thoughts about it now, thanks to you guys.

Don't be stubborn. Move on. She will make contact if she wants anything. But other womans isn't an option since it's unfair when I'm thinking of her while I should have my mind with the other woman. But maybe with some time this fades out. But the spheres-experience was really radical. For now there's simply no other way then this, I think.

To be fair, they have their minds on other men as well. As no one has agreed with you yet, I think you should take it as a sign to give up. It hurts, and you'll never forget it, but you also don't think about it all the time.

[Henk]

To be fair, they have their minds on other men as well. As no one has agreed with you yet, I think you should take it as a sign to give up. It hurts, and you'll never forget it, but you also don't think about it all the time.

You're right. Well explained. But I'm not the person who goes chasing another woman now. In contradary. I just keep the love for her to myself. Or is that selfish? 

[Mozart]

You're right. Well explained. But I'm not the person who goes chasing another woman now. In contradary.

If you submit you'll feel miserable for awhile. But with time you'll be able to go after another. Theres no such thing as 1 woman meant for you. You can fall for any of them.

[Henk]

If you submit you'll feel miserable for awhile. But with time you'll be able to go after another. Theres no such thing as 1 woman meant for you. You can fall for any of them.

That's the big question. Is there a thing as 1 woman meant for you. I have doubts about it. Because of the sphere incident I tend to answer that question positively.
But is it an option to keep the love for her to myself, as I added in my previous post?

[Florestan]

I just keep the love for her to myself. Or is that selfish? 

It's abnormal.

[Harry]

Well watching  the "Charmed Ones" these day, I would say ask "Phoebe"

[Henk]

It's abnormal.

Well, I am a bit eccentric.