Schoolgirl crushes

[Harry]

Egad, explain Henk!

[Mozart]

Well, I am a bit eccentric.

But you do recognize how its abnormal, and creepy right?

[Henk]

Well watching  the "Charmed Ones" these day, I would say ask "Phoebe"

First I have Prince, the song The Dance on repeat, which I finally understand. "I don't wanna give you my love" ... "I can find another, just like you".  But at the end of the song this is unsatisfactory...

[Harry]

First I have Prince, the song The Dance on repeat, which I finally understand. "I don't wanna give you my love" ... "I can find another, just like you".  But at the end of the song this is unsatisfactory...

That really is a good song and a fine artist, or at least he was.
And in these words he is right, otherwise you don't survive!

[Henk]

But you do recognize how its abnormal, and creepy right?

I don't gonna kill her, don't worry. In the end I'm a social being. My selflesness in this is just out of emergency. 0:)

[Harry]

I don't gonna kill her, don't worry. In the end I'm a social being. My selflesness in this is just out of emergency. 0:)

Fear is a bad adviser Henk!
Take out a bottle or two of Riesling, spatlese, and dream yourself away, if things get to hard to for you.
Mind, do this not every day, but only when the emergency is at its highest point.
For me that worked.

[Henk]

Egad, explain Henk!

Well I recently posted this:
http://www.good-music-guide.com/community/index.php/topic,27.msg168962.html#msg168962

There's probably a reason for those existential crises. But let's not talk about that.

[Harry]

Well I recently posted this:
http://www.good-music-guide.com/community/index.php/topic,27.msg168962.html#msg168962

There's probably a reason for those existential crises. But let's not talk about that.

Right I missed that!
But as to the music, I never heard of it, but that's normal, for I rarely hear music that modern.
But I understand now, that you are in some sort of crisis, even existential.

[Henk]

Fear is a bad adviser Henk!
Take out a bottle or two of Riesling, spatlese, and dream yourself away, if things get to hard to for you.
Mind, do this not every day, but only when the emergency is at its highest point.
For me that worked.

Can you explain what fear has got to do with it?
I think I already solved me being in emergence by keeping the love for her by myself.
But then there's the conflict of being too selffish, being a social person actually. When that emergency is at the highest point your method could help. I will keep that advice in mind. Good reason to drink much .

[Harry]

Can you explain what fear has got to do with it?
I think I already solved me being in emergence by keeping the love for her by myself.
But then there's the conflict of being too selffish, being a social person actually. When that emergency is at the highest point your method could help. I will keep that advice in mind. Good reason to drink much .

Well fear is a intricate element of emergencies, and in this instance it is the fear of losing.

[Henk]

Right I missed that!
But as to the music, I never heard of it, but that's normal, for I rarely hear music that modern.
But I understand now, that you are in some sort of crisis, even existential.

If I have my methods to pull me through, I'm allright.

[Henk]

Well fear is a intricate element of emergencies, and in this instance it is the fear of losing.

That's a more basic explanation. Very interesting.

[Mozart]

May I ask how old you are friend?

[Henk]

28

[Florestan]

28

High time to move on. Very high indeed.

[Harry]

High time to move on. Very high indeed.

Infact, High Noon!

[Henk]

Last consideration. By doing this, keeping the love for her for myself, I have overcome all strategy. The game has reached a level of very high seriousity, leaving it totally to her. How would she react? Isn't she highly confused about it (though she isn't quickly confused), and will finally break the ice?!

[Mozart]

You seriously don't know? It wouldn't break the ice at all, it will create an ice age.

[Henk]

You seriously don't know? It wouldn't break the ice at all, it will create an ice age.

You won't know how this girl would react. Maybe it will soften her and she falls in love.

[greg]

Henk: the best thing to do is try to think about other girls- find some on myspace, try to meet some, eventually the effect will wear off. Girls are like a poison distracting you from the real important aspects of life. 


Well, here's my current story. A fellow cashier, named Amelia, someone I've been talking to at work about 2? months now. Amazingly, despite being light-skinned and having red hair, I find her quite attractive- more than any other girl I've known for the last 2 years. I think the way she does the dark eye shadow or whatever it's called is really nice, something I've noticed more.

Anyways, at first we were able to talk a lot, but now, I rarely get to talk to her. It's annoying, since I want to ask her for her myspace address and we never have the time to talk anymore- always working in different departments now. In fact, I think they might've moved me somewhere else, though I'd have to check.

My question is: what the heck should I say to lead up to asking for her myspace address (because it's not like I can just say, "hey! btw, what's your myspace address?") lol

I like Paul's policy: let girls come to you, instead of the other way around......

A few things I've noted:

1) when we were selling the $1 shamrock-design donation things that we put up on the wall, she bought one and wrote my name on it (instead of her's) and put hearts all over it. Made me rofl!

2) one of the first few days when I was talking to her, she said one of the guys who worked in lumber department asked her out, and she said no. So does she like saying "no" in general, or only to that specific person?

3) the way she walked by me and touched me and then looked at me last week- was that flirting!? I never flirt, so I don't really know..... then again, i couldn't imagine anyone else doing that.

4) the more i stand next to her not talking, the more she wants to start conversations. So I do what's natural- stand there and be silent. 


Lol, if I went out with her, all the guys would be jealous for sure...... but if I don't, strangely enough, I wouldn't feel any loss at all. So I'm not sure if it'd be a crush when it wouldn't bother you much if you never see them again.